Learning to Accept “NO”

Learning to Accept It When Someone Says "No, I Don't Want to Share"

Hi there, young readers! Today, we will talk about something very important—how to accept it when someone says, "No, I don't want to share." Let's dive into a little story to help us understand.

The Story of Sam and Alex

In a colorful playroom filled with toys were two friends named Sam and Alex. Sam had a brand-new toy car that Alex wanted to play with. Alex asked, "Sam, can I play with your new car?"

Sam thought momentarily and said, "No, I don't want to share it right now."

At first, Alex felt mad.   But Alex remembered that everyone has the right to say no. Just like Alex sometimes didn’t feel like sharing certain toys, it was okay for Sam to feel the same way.

What to Do When Someone Says No

  1. Stay Calm and Respectful: It’s normal to feel disappointed when someone says no, but it’s important to stay calm and respect their decision.

  2. Understand Their Feelings: Sometimes, people don’t want to share because the item is special to them. Remember how you feel about your favorite toy? It’s the same for them.

  3. Find Something Else to Do: Instead of feeling upset, try finding another toy or activity to enjoy. There are so many fun things to do!

  4. Talk About It Later: If you still feel sad, you can talk to your friend about it later. They might be willing to share once they know how much it means to you.

Why It's Okay to Say No

Everyone has things that are special to them. Just like you have the right to keep your favorite toy to yourself, others have the same right too. It’s all about understanding and respecting each other’s feelings.

The Joy of Playing Together

Even if someone says no, it doesn’t mean they don’t want to be your friend. You can still have a great time playing with other toys or games. Friendship is about having fun and being kind to each other.

So, next time someone says, "No, I don't want to share," remember to stay calm, be understanding, and find joy in all the other beautiful things you can do together!

Here's a picture of Sam and Alex to remind you of this story:

Stay kind and keep smiling, little friends!